December is full of regrets, unfortunately… And it’s like load of whole 30 days has fallen on 31st over us…it’s like the struggle for thirty-third mark in an exam where 33% is passing criteria… But u know that you are going to fail, be it by one marks or more than that, failure is failure…well not in case of everyone but yes the most of us do feel like that and that’s actually if we take it in a good way,is the best feeling that comes before hard work. “REGRET”, ” GUILT” and the feeling that “IT COULD HAVE BEEN BETTER”
But still the fresh breeze of hope do make us sway, the breeze of new hopes the breeze of new year. That’s another thing that we all know that it’s just the change of date and nothing is going to change, but parallelly as a human it’s our mindset that something has ended and you can’t do anything about it at all…and something new is about to begin, so focus on that.
Being an aspirant our prime focus should be on our aim, We are in the peak moment from where we can analyse our whole year.Here are some points you can focus upon while inspecting your work and introspecting yourself.
- Your biggest mistake – Give it a thought that which was your worst mistake. Never run away from your mistakes, first rectify the worst one. Accept it even if you have to answer many stupid question because obviously dogs are always ready to bark, but they are one who remind you that you were not right so take advantage of that.
- Turn every outcome in your favour – As I said in my previous point don’t run away but accept your mistakes, and LEARN from it. People are going to throw stones in your way, it depends on our smartness that we are getting injured by that or we are making a bridge out of it. Choice is yours.
- Dominate your life: We often see people asking for advice and literally begging in front of others just to solve it, WHY??? because they don’t have audacity to take the responsibility. Yes, there are many problems which you can’t solve by yourself but at least don’t let your mind work like a layman when your heart is craving for being hero. Don’t ask others about your own weaknesses, they might know you for 5-10 years but yourself since the day you were born.
- Come out of your comfort zone – There was post on facebook that “Laziness is mother of all habits, and because she is mother we should respect her” :p “NO” don’t. One more was there “LIFE begins out of our comfort zone” (hmm…this one is better 🙂 ). So come out of your comfort zone and work hard.
- Enjoy– This is the most attractive one. Don’t forget to enjoy. No matter how bad your day is, take it easy and enjoy. There is saying that “SAZA KA MAZA LENA CHAHIYE” which indeed is true.
So, these are some of the points which I wanted to share, may our dream come true and may we RISE and SHINE.
Happy New Year guys, live it loud.
By: Adil Aahmad Sindhi
