4 Personality Development Tips For Success At SSB. Serving the motherland is the dream of many but only few are lucky enough to achieve that and fulfil it. This does not mean that only few individuals have the OLQ’s and the capability to succeed or the selection process is quite tough but it means that few work in right direction and under right guidance while other few are obstructed by wrong guidance and path that they follow. There are also many myths that prevail in the place and it can mislead many. SSB is a different category of assessment where things are psychologically assessed and personality and potential of an officer is looked at. Many aspirants have their upcoming SSB and have asked me to share tips on these lines so this article is dedicated to all their requests.
Developing personality is not easy as it is shaped by many factors like:
- Way one is brought up
- Educational qualifications and studies done
- Family background and social status
- Way of thinking and living and the people one is surrounded with
Definitely this list is not exhaustive and can increase and also be assured that controlling such factors is not in our hands earlier but now you have full control and should work as below to achieve your goal for the development of personality and thus achieving success :
- Live life with positivity: Life is very small and hence every second of it should be spent wisely. It should not be the case that one is wasting life. Positive thinking even at difficult situations can help in coming out and this approach changes the way one looks and live the life. Thus it helps in improving your psychological responses.
- Controlled body language: body language is the reflection of ones personality before anyone can speak up things. It always help individual to perform better at places. It also tells many traits and thus assessors make it important tool to assess at SSB to know about one’s personality.
- Self-introspection of self: This is a technique where one assess himself or herself w.r.t OLQ’s by studying life events. In times to come it will be the only key to success at SSB. Many a times aspirants have complaint to me by dropping personal mail that everyone says do introspection while guiding us but no one has done it for us and made our profiles while teaching or guiding in large groups. Suggestion for such people is that always look for individual guidance so that personality could be properly assessed and there is full time dedication for self.
- Learning from failures: There is so much to do in today’s era that even if one failure comes one should pick up the learning and perform in the next go. There might be many dreams that will be fulfilled while others may not but one should move ahead with constant pace.
Hope this helps in preparation and achieving success. Still If you have any confusion or feel to take individual assessment of personality for OLQ’s or prepare from your place itself through one to one interaction through my mentoring / counselling program drop me a mail at jayendrapsingh@gmail.com or add me on Fb and drop in a message. You will receive the repose personally. If there are things bothering you and you think I can be of help please share. SSB is the easiest exam if the right path is followed as it’s the path of just knowing yourself.
