The Passing Out Parade at the Indian Military Academy (IMA) is a moment of pride, where young cadets don the prestigious ranks of commissioned officers. Among the new lieutenants this year was 23-year-old Lt Kabilan V, a name that resonated with determination, grit, and unparalleled perseverance.
His journey from a small village near Madurai to the elite Para Regiment is a story of unwavering resolve and inspiration.
A Humble Beginning
Kabilan hails from Melur village in Tamil Nadu, where his father, Vetriselvam P, worked as a daily wage labourer, earning just ₹100 a day. Life was never easy for the family. Tragedy struck when his mother, Panmaiyammal, passed away three years ago due to cancer compounded by Covid-19.
Just three months ago, Vetriselvam suffered a debilitating stroke, leaving him paralysed and wheelchair-bound. Despite these adversities, Kabilan’s dream of serving the nation as an officer in the Indian Army never wavered.
Education and Early Struggles
Kabilan’s educational journey began at a government school in his village. Excelling academically, he pursued a civil engineering degree from Anna University. Though his family struggled financially, Kabilan worked tirelessly to balance his studies and responsibilities. His aspiration to join the armed forces was fueled by courage and determination, but the path was far from straightforward.
Kabilan faced multiple rejections while applying for various Army entries, including NCC and graduate-level exams. Each failure only strengthened his resolve. He once shared, “I failed so many times, but I had to get into the defence forces, and I did it. If someone like me, the son of a daily wage labourer, can achieve this, then anyone can.”
Balancing Family and Dreams
Following his mother’s demise, Kabilan took on the responsibility of supporting his family. He ensured his younger brother could pursue his dream of becoming a civil servant while caring for their ailing father. To make ends meet, Kabilan worked as a waterboat supervisor with the Delta Squad, a National Disaster Response Force (NDRF) volunteer group. Despite his taxing schedule, Kabilan made time to prepare for Army exams.
Kabilan’s mentor, Sub Lt (Retd) Sugal Esan, who was present at the Passing Out Parade, recalled how Kabilan balanced his commitments: “He had to sustain his family while chasing his dream. His perseverance was unmatched.”
Courage Under Fire: NDRF Volunteerism
During his tenure with the NDRF, Kabilan played a pivotal role in rescue missions during the Chennai and Kanyakumari floods, saving nearly 200 lives. These experiences not only showcased his courage but also reinforced his desire to serve the nation. Kabilan’s routine involved working from 10 am to 4 pm and studying rigorously from 6 pm to 10 pm with a group of like-minded aspirants.
A Dream Realized: Joining the Para Regiment
Kabilan’s hard work bore fruit when he was selected for the Indian Military Academy. On December 15, 2024, he was commissioned as an officer in the Indian Army. His decision to join the Para Regiment, known for its grueling training and unmatched esprit de corps, reflects his indomitable spirit.
During the parade, Kabilan’s father watched with pride, holding a photograph of Kabilan’s late mother, whose absence was deeply felt. This emotional moment symbolized the culmination of years of struggle and sacrifice.
An Inspiration for All
Lt Kabilan’s journey is a testament to the power of resilience, courage, and determination. Speaking about his achievement, he said, “This is not just my personal success; it belongs to everyone who aspires to join the Indian Army. If I can do it, anyone can.”
His story inspires countless young Indians, especially those from humble beginnings, to dream big and work relentlessly to achieve their goals. Lt Kabilan’s life serves as a beacon of hope and a reminder that no dream is too distant when pursued with unwavering dedication.
As he embarks on his journey in the Para Regiment, Lt Kabilan carries with him the hopes and aspirations of his family, his village, and every individual who dares to dream against all odds.
